Ouch. So what do u want to be when u grow up? 

A terrible question when you think about how it programs a person or a kid to only think about what kind of job they might want to have. 

A friend shared with me :

    My relatives always asked me : ‘what kind of a business i wanted to own when i grew up’ 

Her relatives never thought about jobs they always thought about owning q business. 

So instead of asking children what they want to be when they grow up(as in what kind of job) maybe we can preprogram them to success by asking: ‘what kind of a business do you plan to own when you grow up’.